Relationships don’t just end abruptly. You can’t just end a relationship at the snap of a finger. It is not easy to just wake up one fine day and just end a relationship. It is not like “Here today and gone tomorrow”. Couples strangle their relationships with their own hands. They end up killing their relationships with their actions. They kill their relationships when they start taking each other for granted. They slow poison their relationships when they start ignoring the little things that hurt each other’s feelings. Relationships end when couples no longer accept each other’s flaws. Relationships suffer when there is lack of sensitivity. Relationships wither out when there is no emotional bonding left between couples. Relationships suffocate because of lack of communication, lack of transparency, lack of honesty, lack of trust, lack of respect and most important lack of love. A relationship can only breathe when it is nurtured with lots of love because that is what lasting relationships are made of… UNCONDITIONAL LOVE AND MUTUAL RESPECT… Aarti Khurana
When we hate someone too much, we think about them all the time. Sometimes we fight with them … sometimes we make up with them … But always we stay with them mentally… So do we really hate them? Or is it that we love them somewhere deep down and that’s why they’ve hurt us so much? Or perhaps the pain they’ve caused us has made us so angry that we can’t overcome it… Maybe our love has now become the anger and pain which keeps hurting us… but not hate. When we love someone we can never hate them. We get angry but ultimately we can’t forget the moments we had with them and the love we had remains in our hearts buried under our agony… But it never leaves us….Neena Gupta.
Some people are in Passive-Aggressive relationships, and they can be toxic. It’s an expressive behavior full of resentment and antagonism. The person does not express their negative feelings in a healthy way. Instead, they express them in an underhanded way. They are usually very hostile and cynical. It can make your life very uncomfortable. If your partner is continually giving you the cold shoulder, deliberately not speaking to you, and withholds intimacy then this can be a sign. It’s as if they are punishing you for something you did and you have no clue what you did because they won’t tell you. Instead of communicating, you get the silent treatment. It’s like an “I’ll show you” attitude.When they do speak, it’s usually in a negative tone out of resentment. There are times when they will deliberately try to make you upset or angry. They’ll do things on purpose they know you don’t like. Sometimes they will make critical remarks in a joking way and then say “Just Kidding.” They take power and sometimes are vengeful. Sometimes you don’t see this because you feel as though you deserve this kind of treatment. They brainwash you into thinking it. They send mixed messages, talk about you to others, and put you down in front of others. If you are with someone like that, seek help, or you may have to leave. Your health will suffer if you continue in something that is destructive to your well being…..Carol Guajardo